
5 Questions is our ongoing feature where we introduce you to the people who make Brandywine Counseling run, spotlighting a different staff member every two weeks.
Name: Frank Cassidy
Job: Counselor/Case Manager, Georgetown Center
Time with BCI: 2 years1. How did you get started in the field of addiction treatment?When I first got into recovery, I went to school - like all of us do when we first get into recovery, we think we have a niche - we say, “That’s what I’d like to do, I’d like to help other people, and the best way to do that would be to become an alcoholism counselor.” I was a journeyman plumber prior to going to school, and I was incarcerated for a while, and was able to get my degree when I got out and started my recovery. I decided I would apply up in Syracuse, New York for a counselor’s position at the Salvation Army. The entry level position paid about $8,000 a year, and as a journeyman plumber I could make $60,000 a year, so it was not very difficult for me to make the choice. I went to the plumbing.
Then I worked in nuclear power plants for some 7 or 8 years, moved to Delaware when I got transferred down to the Hope Creek project. And I had been here about 5 years, and they laid me off, and I went back to my home territory, which was in New York City. I went to work for about 6 months and I was injured on the job. The doctor suggested if I had another occupation, I could do [that] until I was fully healed. And I just sat around at home doing nothing, and a good friend of mine in this field, who also worked with my wife, was working for detox. She put my name in to the
Delaware Drinking and Driving program, and they hired me, and I started out there.
And next thing I know, I was in this field. And after being in this field about 7 years, my wife and I decided to open our own business, and we had an outpatient counseling facility for 12 years. And then we retired, and my wife won the gardening award, and I played golf every day. And she said, “I have to keep up with this, I’m going back to work,” and she went back to work at KSI, and I decided, well, I’d seen the job for Brandywine Counseling, and I knew Shay [Lipshitz]. And I talked to Shay, and Shay said c’mon in, and next thing I knew, I was working at Brandywine. This is the only position for counseling that I have ever applied for, with Brandywine Counseling. All the other positions, I never applied for any of those positions, people always came in and asked me if I wanted to come and work there. So I came in off of retirement, I got tired of playing golf, and decided my first love was working with people with problems of addiction.
2. If Brandywine didn’t have Project Renewal, where would homeless substance abusers in Sussex County be going for help?That’s a very good question. Unfortunately we don’t have a lot of programs [in Sussex] for indigence, so I think the people would be hanging around the park. What would happen is, as I remember when I first started out in this field, detox was a revolving door. You’d have people coming into detox, they would be out of detox in one or two days. And there was a group of people that had made detox probably twenty, thirty times a year, [and would] go back out, get back into detox again, the whole thing like that.
We’re seeing people here who have lost everything, and they’re homeless, and they present a much greater challenge because there’s a whole new array of needs. Whereas, most of the people in the other treatment programs that I worked for, they were still functional. They hadn’t lost everything. They were getting into treatment before they’d lost everything. Their “bottoms” were not quite as low as the bottoms that we’re seeing here.
So the case management is a real big component. What we’re doing is, we’re putting the pieces back together here. I mean, this person’s broken, now we’re trying to put them back, piece by piece. Someone requires housing, someone requires a support network, an understanding of recovery and the disease of addiction. These people also have a lot of medical issues [and] comorbidity. The people who were coming to us in the past in treatment, they may have had some mental health problems, but they weren’t as severe as the population over here. There’s a lot of comorbidity now, that’s the special challenge of this program.
3. What would people be surprised to know about your job?
I love it. I love it. I mean, I’m 64 years old, and I can’t think of anything that I would rather do. I’ve done a lot of things in my life, but I just like talking with people. And I like especially, when they’re open and they’re receptive, and I can lean in, and they’re leaning back and they’re interested. One of the things that I tell people, I say, “Basically, I’m a pretty lazy person, and I will sit back on my laurels, and if you don’t tell me that you’re having problems, I will assume that you’re doing okay! If you want what I have, you’ve got to turn around and question me. You’ve got to pull it out of me. Because I have a wealth of information to give. I don’t know what you need! You’ve gotta ask me.”
And that’s how I get these people motivated to turn around and seek questions, more and more information about themselves. And when they do that, they start to get into the flow, and when they start asking questions, the more questions they ask. Questions breed questions. And they just keep going and going, and they get the activity in the group, and y’know, the group starts to bubble, the person starts to bubble. It becomes interesting, the quest of knowledge about addiction.
I’ve been in recovery for 33 years now, and I’ve been working in the treatment field for over 25 years. I never, ever thought I could stop using alcohol or drugs. If you’d asked me that question 33 years ago, I’d say never. Today’s a different story. I look forward to each day, and I think the people that I deal with see that I have a zest for recovery and life, and that I like the idea that I’m not drinking and I’m not drugging.
I believe that the more you know about your enemy, the greater your probability of defeating it. If your enemy is addiction, learn as much about addiction as you can. And that’s what I say. “Challenge me. Keep asking me.” If I don’t know it, I’ll get the information for you. There’s a lot of stuff I don’t know about this disease. I know I’m just coming out of the cave, I’m just starting to see the light. I mean, 33 years in recovery, I’m still just seeing the light! I come out and I look, and every day is a new experience. Every day I learn something new.
4. You can tell a lot about a person from their office. Tell us what you have in your office.
Well, books, that’s number one. There’s plenty of books here, and these books are open to anybody who wants them. I try to supply as much literature as I can. That’s a major part of my counseling philosophy, is to provide people with access to this information. I shop all the thrift shops in my spare time, and I look for self-improvement books, especially
12 Step oriented stuff. And I might pick up the book for a quarter, or fifty cents, or a buck, and I bring that stuff and I put it on the shelf. And most of the stuff that I have in here, I have read myself and is part of my own recovery experience.
The other thing as you look around is, you’ll see the camels. People ask me about the camels, and of course we realize that camels are a symbol of sobriety. They’re an animal that goes a long time without a drink. It’s an animal that goes to its knees twice a day, and it’s symbolic of prayer. It’s an animal that lifts its load with greatest of ease, and walks with its head held high through the course of the day.
So there’s a whole little poem that goes along with that. But I took it one step further.
When I had my own treatment program, I decided I was going to get a camel for every year of sobriety I had. Well, my clients started catching on to this thing, and next thing you know, every time they see a camel, they would bring a camel in to me. And it got to the point where I had about 200, 250 camels around my facility. And I said, this was getting out of hand. When we closed the facility, what I did was I gave camels away to all my clients, but I also had a lot of them left over, so I kept them. And now, when I came [to Brandywine] I said, well, let me bring the camels back. So I started my collection over again, and whenever I see a new camel here or there, I pick one up.
But one of the ones that I got, which was a long, long time ago, and it’s hidden in the back over there, it’s a teapot. And it’s a camel teapot, and it has a monkey sitting on its back. And I said, “Oh, that is so ironic! Here it is, the symbol of recovery, with a monkey sitting on its back!” So I turned around and I said, “Well, let me start getting these monkeys.” And I started getting all these little monkeys, and I put them on the camels’ backs. So here it is: It helps remind us that, not only is it a symbol of sobriety, but we can’t forget the monkey that we have on our back. It’s real important for us to remember that, because that is the key to recovery, to remember our pain and remember that we are addicts, and that we are alcoholics, and we do have that addiction. So camels are a major part, and I love that, because everybody comes and says, “Oh, what’s with the camels?” And it’s a distraction, but it’s a wonderful distraction too.
5. What’s the most rewarding part of your job?I just had a woman who came in, and was pregnant at the time, and she was drinking, and got involved with DFS because she had her baby. And she brought her baby in and I got to hold the baby. That was rewarding to me.
Rewarding is all these people coming through the door. That’s all the rewards. When I walk into the supermarket, or I go to a Wal-Mart, I’m running into people that have been in recovery, that have been there. And they say, “Hey Frank, still doin’ it! Still doin’ it! It’s a year, it’s two years, it’s five years, it’s ten years, it’s fifteen years, it’s
twenty years! And I remember you and your wife.”
Those are the rewards that we get. And one thing I say to all my clients: Don’t forget us. Even if you’re out there, don’t just call us when you’re doing bad, call us when you’re doing good. Let us know that you’re still doing good. That’s the reward, when a counselor gets a call from a past client, and the client says, “Hey Frank, just wanted to let you know I’m doing okay,” that’s a reward. That makes it worthwhile. I’m here to save one life, that’s it. If I can do something to save one life, that’s all I need.
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